by Midnight Freemason Contributor
Bro. Bill Hosler, PM
It was a
bitter cold December evening as Pudge walked through the door of the Masonic
temple. As he opened the door, the smell of good food cooking filled the
vestibule. He could almost taste the steaks as he walked down the hallway. Just
the thought of the feast made his stomach growl.
Pudge walked
into the cloakroom to remove his trench coat revealing his brand new suit. “The
old man was right. I do feel like a million bucks when I dress up!” He placed
his coat and hat on a peg and walked into the temple.
As he walked
through the building he stopped and looked into the dining room. He could not
believe what he saw. The lights in the room were turned down and the candles on
the tables gave the room illumination.
The tables in the dinging room were placed in the shaped of a “U”. They
were covered with real white linen table cloths instead of the white butcher
paper that usually covered them. An altar was placed in the middle of the table
arrangement with the Volume of Sacred law resting on top.
Real silver cutlery
replaced the usual plastic tableware. There
were china settings instead of paper plates. As Pudge gazed upon this unusual
scene, waiters and waitresses scurried to get ready for the meal. He thought
how strange it will be to have someone serve the lodge meal instead of going
through the normal cafeteria style that lodge meals are usually served in.
The social
room was filled with laughter as he walked in. Men were standing around in
little groups, talking and laughing. Pudge could tell by the conversations, as he
passed the groups, that this was a joyous occasion filled with happiness in the
air. The 50 year member was sitting in a leather chair in the corner talking
with several other members. As he approached the group, Pudge could tell the
conversation was about an event from years ago.
“Hey Pudge!
Glad you could make it! Have a seat.” The old man stood and shook his hand. “That
new suit looks good on you! You know the
rest of the guys.” Pudge shook everyone’s hand and took a seat with the group.
“I know this is old hat to you guys, but I am excited. This is my first Feast
of Saint John. I don’t know what to expect.” All the men started to smile “You
can expect a good meal and great fellowship. I look forward to this event every
year. It’s like my Masonic Christmas.” Robert Davies exclaimed, “I never miss
it. I was thinking about it this week. This is my sixty-fifth feast. I never
miss one!” The 50 year member said in a laughing tone, “Robert you never miss
it because you can’t say no to a free meal!” The whole group laughed.
“I mean it.”
Robert said “I really look forward to this feast. Don’t get me wrong I enjoy
the regular meals we have but there is something special about this night. I
don’t know if it is the meal or the toasts or the fellowship but the feast is
always magical to me. I wish we could have it more often.”
Pudge
thought for a second, “Why can’t we have it more often? We don’t need a special
holiday to have a feast and celebrate Freemasonry.” Everyone got quiet for a
second to think about this idea. Herb Walker broke the silence, “The idea
sounds good, but the meal we have is pretty good. I don’t see why we need to
change it.” Mark Miller quickly jumped in, “The food we normally have is good
but there is nothing wrong with the idea of making our lodge meals more
special. Instead of just feeding our bodies we could also feed our souls.” Herb
replied, “I can see that but we can’t afford a steak dinner at every lodge
meeting.”
Robert
thought for a second, “It doesn’t have to be an expensive meal at every
meeting. I am talking about how we do it. Right now we just serve food hoping
it will entice members to attend our meetings. If we were to make our meals a
celebration of Brotherhood instead of a gimmick to get guys to come we might
have more Brethren show up.”
Pudge replied,
“I think you have something there Robert. It is the quality of a lodge
experience men are looking for. It isn’t about a quick meal and then sitting
through a boring meeting. Men want to be inspired when they come to lodge.”
The 50 year
member was listening to the discussion that the Brethren were having. When I
visited lodges in England, Brethren would close lodge and enter the dining room
to conduct what they call the festive board. They have it after ever meeting
and degree night. Basically a festive board is exactly what we are talking
about. The Brethren sit down and have a restaurant quality meal served to them
by waiters. There was laughter and the telling of stories, just like we have at
our meal. Once the meal is finished, the Brethren sing and have a series of
toasts where several men would make remarks. It is a beautiful ceremony. Once
the ceremony is complete they all shake hands and go to their homes. They leave
their temple with a feeling of peace and fellowship. Each one arrives home with
a warm glow of fraternity and they feel closer to the Craft and the Brethren
who make it up.
The money we
spend on the meal shouldn’t, in my opinion, be a factor. Can you put a price on
Freemasonry? Sometimes you need to spend a little extra on something special.
There isn’t a man here who would scrimp on a special meal with their family.
Would you take your wife to a fast food joint on Valentine’s Day or your
wedding anniversary? Of course not! Why should a night with your Masonic
Brethren be any different? Nearly all of us have been to a Grand Lodge dinner.
Do they eat baloney sandwiches and potato chips on paper plates? NO! They have
a special banquet with the finest foods. We all have to ask ourselves a
question. Did you join Freemasonry to be
mediocre or to become great?”
The group
became silent. “I sometimes think about staying home and not come to a meeting.
I think about the meal being served and think I could be home eating a better meal
at. Some of the Brethren are good cooks but I want my lodge time to be special
like John was talking about. I think it is something we should think about,
Robert said in a low voice. I don’t want mediocre. I want my Masonry to be
special.”
Pudge looked
at the group and stated, A Past Grand Master from Indiana, Dwight L Smith once
said, “The Festive Board is not the wolfing of ham sandwiches, pie and coffee
at the conclusion of a degree. It is the Hour of Refreshment in all its beauty
and dignity; an occasion for inspiration and fellowship; a time when the noble
old traditions of the Craft are preserved.” This is what a lot of the younger
guys are saying. When we joined we wanted the Freemasonry we seen in the
movies. We came to learn. We wanted to become better men. We wanted
Freemasonry! If we want to keep the Craft growing we need to look at some of
these traditions and bring them back. If we continue on the path we have been
traveling we will soon cease to be the great fraternity our forefathers built.”
~BH
WB Bill Hosler was made a Master Mason in 2002 in Three Rivers Lodge #733 in Indiana. He served as Worshipful Master in 2007 and became a member of the internet committee for Indiana's Grand Lodge. Bill is currently a member of Roff Lodge No. 169 in Roff Oklahoma and Lebanon Lodge No. 837 in Frisco,Texas. Bill is also a member of the Valley of Fort Wayne Ancient Accepted Scottish Rite in Indiana. A typical active Freemason, Bill also served as the High Priest of Fort Wayne's Chapter of the York Rite No. 19 and was commander of of the Fort Wayne Commandery No. 4 of the Knight Templar. During all this he also served as the webmaster and magazine editor for the Mizpah Shrine in Fort Wayne Indiana.
another great story, Bro. Bill
ReplyDeleteif more Lodges would work at making their meetings feel special, we would see the side lines full
from what I've read about T.O. Lodges, this how every meetings is
they don't need to implement everything that T.O. Lodges do but a few changes would make a world of difference
I agree Brother. In my opinion a TO lodge is just one treatment to to cure what's wrong with the Craft.
DeleteIf lodges would just practice Freemasonry there would be no need for TO lodges and we wouldn't lose more members to demits and NPD's than to deaths.
I agree with you on that. We need to get back to the lessons that our Fraternity originally taught and not become just be another service organization. As chairman of the Masonic Education committee in our lodge, I try to have something to share with the brethren at our Stated & Extra meetings. What frustrates me is that the W.M. this year wants me to limit my talk to about 2 minutes. You sure aren't going to share much in that short amount of time. I'm going to offer those interested in learning more to come in for a Masonic Education meeting on a different night.
ReplyDeleteThat is sad. Luckily there is always next year.
ReplyDeleteThere are other ways you can offer education to your Brethren. You can organize a study group on another night or maybe create an education newsletter and offer it to the guys or even create YouTube videos! The possibilities are endless.
If a road is blocked just find an alternate path!
I being new to the craft have only heard the brothers of the lodge talking about it. I belive its going to be coming in March exciting.
ReplyDeleteYou will enjoy it. A table lodge is a great meal and great fellowship. I love the ritual of it too. It's like something you have never experienced before. Let me know how it goes!
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